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Doubts’ ultimate goal is to stop you in your tracks and prevent you from even getting started.
Doubt tricks you into making excuses and believing, you are not worthy, you’re not good enough, you don’t know enough , you don’t have enough, it’s too expensive etc. I certainly have experienced many of these feelings at various stages of my life especially as I embarked upon new challenges. ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀
Ultimately, I found that there were 2 simple things that I had to do in order to overcome my limiting beliefs and self doubts and they were:⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀
These 2 simple steps was the ammunition I needed to push past the mess in my head and alter my belief system in order to accomplish my goals.
Until Next Time
~Nerissa 💋
Welcome to September ‼️
As we end of this quarter and start to embrace the holidays, New Year, family and career obligations, business and goal setting, the question that constantly comes up is “Does Work Life balance truly exist ❓❓”
We all have the same 24 hours in a day. The truth is how much of it are you spending doing what fulfills you.
When you are running 🏃🏽♀️ around chasing priorities you:
1. Don’t get much accomplished ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀
2. Feel more overwhelmed and frustrated
3. Beat up on yourself for not getting things done.⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀
The one thing you should understand is that everything your juggling is important. The problem is, when you juggle too many things what ultimately happens is that you start to drop a ball or two as you keep adding more priorities.
The goal is to stop juggling and start managing your tasks.
No more will your tasks manage you!!
Here are 2 simple steps to managing tasks and achieving a sense of fulfillment.
1. Set priorities and rank them in order of importance.
2. Identify what needs to be done immediately, within the next 7 days and what can wait a bit.⠀⠀
3. Use a calendar to schedule and map out your priorities that need to be accomplished that week and month. Make sure that the times you set are are non-negotiable.⠀⠀
4. Highlight, check-off and celebrate each small win you accomplish. These small wins ultimately leads to big goals and you will feel a sense of accomplishment. ⠀⠀⠀
These steps can help to ensure that you focus on completing the most pertinent tasks, as opposed to placing your time and attention on tasks that can wait.
Prioritize your task list this week and see how much you will get accomplished!
Until Next Time
~Nerissa 💋
Behind every successful woman is a sister friend or circle that support and pushes her to be her best. Oprah has Gail, Kelly Rowland & Beyonce, La La & Kim Kardashian to name few. Either way they all have their sister circle. As an introvert I love keeping to myself so sisterhood is foreign to me. I keep a handful of people close to me. I would prefer to sit in a corner listening to my favorite book or just sit quietly at a function observing before networking or jumping into anything. I love keeping to myself. Let me know if i am by myself with this one.Don’t get me wrong, I love to have fun and party but when I’m in a comfortable setting. I am starting to believe that this whole introvert thing is a means to accept the term and remain comfortable? This i will address another day but overtime I learned that this is not the way to grow and succeed. When women come together to support and empower other women, something magical happens. You need quality relationships, accountability and people that will keep you in check. You need that sisterhood that will force you out of the corner and out of your comfort zone. Those sisters that will ask you “Why haven’t you started that thing yet?” Sisters that listen to you, accept you as you are, see you as who you are becoming, don’t hold you back or get jealous of you, support you in your mission, and celebrate you. Your sisterhood should empower you. Heck Women Understand Women! Oftentimes with entrepreneurship, it can get a bit lonely especially when former friends are not on the same journey as you. It is always great to have like minds and folks of different experiences able to pour into you and guide you available to you. So all my introverted ladies that’s stepping outside their comfort zones to network, build relationships, businesses, tribes and pour into others reach out and send a text to your tribe letting them know how much you appreciate them. For those that are searching for a tribe there are 2 things you can do: 1. Search Facebook Groups with similar interests and join them. Comment, make connections, friend requests and contribute to the group. 2. Create a tribe of your own. I am certain that there are many women out there looking for a tribe, start your own. If we truly expect to rise to the levels of success we want, we must come together. UNTIL NEXT TIME 💋~NERISSA |
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Happy Monday!
The mind can play some serious tricks on you. It can cause you to doubt your ability, power and your dreams!
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Here are 3 tips for keeping your mind right and goals tight:
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1. Read!! Knowledge is key.
The more you know the more you grow. As you gain more knowledge you gain more confidence in your area of expertise and it leaves less room for doubt. Not only can we learn from the successes of other entrepreneurs but we can also learn a huge amount from Not only can we learn from the successes of other entrepreneurs but we can also learn a huge amount from their failures as well.
2. Personal Development.
Personal development is a lifelong pursuit because we always have room to grow. You must have the desire to and be open to learning and growing. Personal development helps you to gain more confidence and strengthen your beliefs. You can learn from others that have accomplished the same and more. Investing in trainings, workshops, conferences, READING ( #1) are keys to your overall growth. Either way you must invest in your personal development.
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3. Which should be number one…Prayer 🙏🏾!
Prayer changes everything. Pray to eliminate your negative thoughts and distractions. Reach deep inside to access the power of praying in order to change your thoughts, and ultimately your life. Prayer is a two-way communication with your highest power (for me it’s GOD). When we tap into his resources by faith and pray, miracles happen.
When in doubt, pray!
When afraid, pray!
When worried, pray!
When in trouble, pray!
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Prayer, reading and professional development will help you to become more knowledgeable and confident which helps you to be more focused and productive.
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This Gratitude week take some time to identify those gifts, talents and opportunities available to you. There is no time like now to do something new, step outside your comfort zone, fail a few times and learn the tools to succeed.
They say the burial ground is full of unused gifts and talents. We all know that life is short and tomorrow isn’t promised. Don’t spend another day, week and year doing the same routine, the same old rat race, the same old agenda, the same old complaining that you need something more.
Your gifts and talents are ultimately your strengths, and these strengths when frequently used plays a positive role on performance, satisfaction, fulfillment and your overall quality of life. No more reason than that to identify them and use them.
YES, our talents can help us earn money and YES, we all need money. We don’t need to feel guilty recognizing that money is one of the purposes why we should use our gifts and talents. Please, Please be careful though, remind yourself that gifts and talents are not just for accumulating money they are for serving and improving the lives of others.
So don’t take for granted those gifts, talents and the opportunities available to you. Spend some time to identify them, be thankful for them and then establish a plan to use them to benefit others and yourself. When you find what you are really good at and with constant use and practice, your gifts can serve you well.
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Stay Tuned……Until Next Time and have a Happy Thanksgiving!
~Nerissa