Happy New Year! Have 20/20 in 2020!

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Happy New Year !

On New Year’s Eve my boss invited the team to have a brief morning huddle and afterwards we all can go down to the chapel to receive communion and a blessing for the New Year. What a great way to end the year at work.

When we arrived, the pastor began to speak and stated his revelation that morning was to have 20/20 in 2020. I said “WOW”, that’s a whole word.

Can you imagine having a clear vision of your next level ?
Can you imagine what you can get accomplished by being able to clearly see what your path is?

That is what having 20/20 in 2020 mean; clear vision in the new year. For those of you that wear glasses like myself, you know how things look  when you take them off …….BLURRY!
Can you imagine going through life without your glasses on and blurred vision.

Well I am saying to you this 2020, its time to put your clarity glasses on and see the path that is lined up for you. Get clear on the strategy, tool and resources you  need to launch or up-level your business this year. Take action and enjoy the journey.

You got this! 

Cheers to your abundant and prosperous new year! 

~Nerissa 💋 


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Why You Should Stop Chasing Success ?

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I have reached a point in my life where I no longer climb success mountains. I’m not chasing titles or statuses. I’m more focused on being significant and living a fulfilled life.

I spent the majority of my life chasing what success is or what others think it should be and still was running in circles. My whole reasoning behind a lot of my decisions was to prove to others I was successful, worthy, popular, etc. I was focused on climbing the ladder of success as well by chasing titles.

The problem is, once you achieve it, you stand around looking for what’s next. You see, when success isn’t based on your own desires, fulfillment’s and happiness, as you achieve them you still feel empty and the feeling never lasts.
When you understand that success is short lived, you change your focus from chasing success to chasing things of significance.

So for me, I no longer measure my success against others, chase titles, and tie my self-worth to my accomplishments. I clearly understand what I bring to the table, my value, who I belong to and therefore have nothing to prove.

So listen….you don’t have to prove yourself to others, chase success, try to do the next best thing, or be any and everything to everyone.
Self reflect, understand your gifts, your value and just BE YOU! Your gifts and value will open doors for you that you would have never imagined.

Happy Holidays! 🎄
Until Next Time,

~Nerissa 💋

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The Three Things That Highly Successful People Do To Push Past Limiting Beliefs and Manifest Success.

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Have you just recently launched a business or tired of your daily 9-5 routine?

Looking to do something different but are afraid you may fail?

Are you unsure about whether or not you have what it takes to be successful?

If your fear of the unknown is holding you back from going full speed ahead and working towards creating the business and/or life of your dreams then you need to continue reading. There are 3 things that highly successful people do in order to push past their self-defeating thoughts and manifest success.

Here they are:

Prepare Yourself Mentally for Obstacles:

Obstacles are inevitable in life and business so therefore you should expect them. Once you understand that there are seasons in life and business you can prepare yourself mentally to embrace them. So when the time comes and you hit an obstacle, don’t panic, instead, ride it out, absorb the lessons, and move forward. This is not an opportunity to quit!

See Opportunities—Not Challenges: Many people see challenges and freeze with fear. The successful don’t see challenges, but instead look for opportunities. In every lesson there is an opportunity to learn, grow and become better. Be like the successful and look for the opportunities in all challenges. Its all about perspective!

Find a Good Mentor or Coach – One good way to find out  how to be successful is to get advice from a great mentor or coach. This person could be your boss, a co-worker or a professional that is highly successful. Find at least one person that is a few steps ahead of you and learn from them. You can have a paid coach, a virtual or real life mentor who you can reach out to. I have many virtual mentors online that i follow and get great tips from. The goal is to use you mentor and coach to help avoid common learning curves and therefore provide a shortcut to success.

Its time for you to take that leap and understand that it won’t always be perfect but it will be well worth it.

Until Next Time 💋

~Nerissa

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Is Sisterhood Crucial For Success?

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Behind every successful woman is a sister friend or circle that support  and pushes her to be her best. Oprah has Gail, Kelly Rowland & Beyonce,  La La & Kim Kardashian to name  few. Either way they all have their sister circle.

As an introvert I love keeping to myself so sisterhood is foreign to me. I keep a handful of people close to me.

I would prefer to sit in a corner listening to my favorite book or just sit quietly at a function observing before networking or jumping into anything. I love keeping to myself.  Let me know if i am by myself with this one.Don’t get me wrong, I love to have fun and party  but when I’m in a comfortable setting. 

I am starting to believe that this whole introvert thing is a means to accept the term and remain comfortable? This i will address another day but overtime I learned that this is not the way to grow and succeed. 

When women come together to support and empower other women, something magical happens. You need quality relationships, accountability and people that will keep you in check. You need that sisterhood that will force you out of the corner and out of your comfort zone. Those sisters that will ask you “Why haven’t you started that thing yet?” Sisters that listen to you, accept you as you are, see you as who you are becoming, don’t hold you back or get jealous of you, support you in your mission, and celebrate you. Your sisterhood should empower you.

 Heck Women Understand Women!

Oftentimes with entrepreneurship, it can get a bit lonely especially when former friends are not on the same journey as you. It is always great to have like minds and folks of different experiences able to pour into you and guide you available to you.
So all my introverted ladies that’s stepping outside their comfort zones to network, build relationships, businesses, tribes and pour into others reach out and  send a text to your tribe letting them know how much you appreciate them.

For those that are searching for a tribe there are 2 things you can do:

1. Search Facebook Groups with similar interests and join them. Comment, make connections, friend requests and contribute to the group.


2. Create a tribe of your own. I am certain that there are many women out there looking for a tribe, start your own.

If we truly expect to rise to the levels of success we want, we must come together.


UNTIL NEXT TIME
💋~NERISSA

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My Personal Lesson in Goal-setting!

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Why You Should Consider Changing Your Plan and Not Changing Your Goal?

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Have you ever decided to stop pursuing your dreams because the plan you had didn’t work?

Well, I’m here to tell you that most times things do not go according to plan and yet you can still have a great outcome and even accomplish your goal?

I will never forget when I became pregnant my senior year of high school. I received my college acceptance letter to go away to school for nursing and boy I was excited until I looked down at my moving belly. The first thing I thought about was I can never become a nurse now.  I truly contemplated changing my goal of becoming a nurse and I started thinking about what else can I do. I decided to go to school to become a medical assistant. I figured this will start getting me the exposure I needed.

I ended up working at a local hospital as a temp in the file room and they hired me full-time making $33,000  year at 21 doing registration. That was good money to pay for daycare and more. The goal of becoming a nurse became more real to me and I revisited and revised my plan. I was able to start school part-time and eventually left and went to school full-time to complete my nursing degree. At this young age throughout all my trials and obstacles I didn’t give up on my goal.  Although it took me an extra 2 years to get started, I accomplished my goal by simply being open to revise my plan and not change my ultimate goal.

This has constantly been a reminder for me anytime things do not go according to plan to simply change my plan and not the goal. I continue to face this in life, business, personal and more but I remembered how overcame as a teen mom and if I can do it then I can definitely do it again over and over now.

What goal have you given up on because things didn’t according to plan?

Use this new decade to devise a whole new plan and execute.

This is the year of implementation.

Comment implementation below if you plan to use this decade to revise and execute your plan.

Until Next Time,

~Nerissa 💋

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Have You Picked Your One Word?

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Have you Pick your ONE Word?

Of course with every new year there are resolutions, goals, vision boards etc., but one thing I make sure to establish each year along with all the others is my ONE word.


Your ONE word will help to give you clarity and help you to focus on your overall being. It sets the tone for the year, your path and your results. Your ONE word helps to determine how you want to show up for the year.


Last year my word was consistency and with this I saw my non- profit grow in a direction I never imagined because I was consistent with what I wanted to manifest with it.


I was also consistent because not only did I hire a coach but she held me accountable to be more consistent on social media, blogging my email list and more.


This year my ONE word is “ Implementation”. I learned a lot this year and refuse to be in the info gathering stage so my goal is massive implementation of all that I have learned in order to see massive results.


What is your ONE word for 2020?
Have you picked one ☝🏾?


Share your ONE word with me.


Share this message with a friend and hold each other accountable to your ONE word!

Until Next time,

~Nerissa 💋

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Merry Christmas!

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Wishing you a very Merry Christmas and a joyous holiday season from my family to yours.

Thanks for being a part of my blog family.

Whether you celebrate Christmas, Hanukkah, Kwanzaa or any other end of the year festivities, I hope you enjoy this wonderful time with your family and loved ones.

Until Next Time,

~Nerissa 💋
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New Month, New Game plan!

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November Goals

Happy November!
It’s a New Month!

My favorite season is fall and it’s a great opportunity to shed some things and make some changes. 🍁 .

I struggled the last quarter with my time management. I realized that in order to ensure that I finish this quarter strong and have great momentum heading into the New Year, that It will take me changing some habits and creating new ones.

I made up my mind that today will be my New Year.

This is the perfect time to start over.

Ain’t nothing like a good ol’ reset!

One thing you can do to start the process of a reset is to take a day to disconnect from social media. Use this time to really be intentional about  meditating and listening for your next moves. Often times the different things we see on social media tend to cloud our vision and create confusion. We start to think we should be doing what others are doing. This is one  great way to reset and get clarity.

As seasons change understand that there are also seasons in your relationships, business, ministry, career etc.

For this season, you are embarking on something new. Make the change, shed and say NO to some things,  reset and adjust your clock ⏰ this season.

It will be your best ever. . . . .

Until Next Time 💋

~Nerissa

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Hello October!!

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Hello October!!

It’s the final quarter of 2019.

Are you excited or feeling unaccomplished???

Are you frustrated because you have not made the progress you wanted?

Yes the New Year is right around the corner.

Have you set aside some time to map out the balance of the year. It’s time to reflect on all you have accomplished thus far, where you are as far as your goals and what you need to do to finish the year off strong. Don’t worry, there is still time to kick start the New Year with momentum.

Here are three things you should do now to start your New Year off successful:

1. Make a decision: It’s time for you to decide if this is what you truly want and if you’re going to do what it takes. Otherwise you are just wasting your time year after year setting goals and not achieving them. Decide if it’s time to launch your business, write that book, take that course, get that coach, etc.

2. Make a Plan: After you have made a decision to take a leap and get started, now you need a plan. A plan is your road map to success. Without a plan you are wandering aimlessly, with no strategy, no guide and no planned outcome. A plan helps you to re-evaluate your course, determine if your moving in the right direction, when it’s time to make a detour and take another route. Your plan is your personal G.P.S. …..(Game Plan for Success)

3. Take Action: Stop staying in info-seeking mode. You don’t need another course or training…. it’s time to take action and learn from doing. Experience is your best teacher and your mistakes are the best source of wisdom. There is so much information available and accessible to help you succeed but it can become a crutch when you feel like you don’t have or know enough. Remember sis, you have all you need right inside you. God has already equipped you once he planted that vision within you. It’s time to seize it!

 

Make a decision, write out your plan and work that plan. These simple steps can ensure you that you’ll have a successful last quarter of 2019 and a fulfilling start to your New Year!

 

Until Next Time 💋

~Nerissa

 

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How To Overcome Self Doubt In 2 Simple Steps.

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Doubts’ ultimate goal is to stop you in your tracks and prevent you from even getting started.

Doubt tricks you into making excuses and believing, you are not worthy, you’re not good enough, you don’t know enough , you don’t have enough, it’s too expensive etc. I certainly have experienced many of these feelings at various stages of my life especially as I embarked upon new challenges. ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀

Ultimately, I found that there were 2 simple things that I had to do in order to overcome my limiting beliefs and self doubts and they were:⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀

  1. Reflect on all my past wins, what they were and how I overcame and succeeded in the past. This helped me to confirm that “ I Am More than Capable” and if I did it before I can certainly do it again. ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀
  1. Venture beyond my comfort zone to try new things and opportunities often. By taking action despite my fears and self doubts helped me to take the necessary steps to overcome and manifest my dreams and goals.⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀

These 2 simple steps was the ammunition I needed to push past the mess in my head and alter my belief system in order to accomplish my goals.

Until Next Time

~Nerissa 💋

 

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Does Work Life Balance Really Exist??

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Welcome to September ‼️

As we end of this quarter and start to embrace the holidays, New Year, family and career obligations, business and goal setting, the question that constantly comes up is “Does Work Life balance truly exist ❓❓”

We all have the same 24 hours in a day. The truth is how much of it are you spending doing what fulfills you.

When you are running 🏃🏽‍♀️ around chasing priorities you:

1. Don’t get much accomplished ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀

2. Feel more overwhelmed and  frustrated

  3. Beat up on yourself for not getting things done.⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀

The one thing you should understand is that everything your juggling is important. The problem is, when you juggle too many things what ultimately happens is that you start to drop a ball or two as you keep adding more priorities.

The goal is to stop juggling and start managing your tasks.

No more will your tasks manage you!!

Here are 2 simple steps to managing tasks and achieving a sense of fulfillment.

1. Set priorities and rank them in order of importance.

2. Identify what needs to be done immediately, within the next 7 days and what can wait a bit.⠀⠀

3. Use a calendar to schedule and map out your priorities that need to be accomplished that week and month. Make sure that the times you set are are non-negotiable.⠀⠀

4. Highlight, check-off and celebrate each small win you accomplish. These small wins ultimately leads to big goals and you will feel a sense of accomplishment. ⠀⠀⠀

These steps can help to ensure that you focus on completing the most pertinent tasks, as opposed to placing your time and attention on tasks that can wait.

Prioritize your task list this week and see how much you will get accomplished!

Until Next Time

~Nerissa 💋

 

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